My boyfriend and I engaged in unprotected penetration about six days ago. Not sex, just penetration. We are always careful about sex. He always wears a condom. This time we just wanted to know what it felt like without a condom. He just went in, moved around a little, and pulled out five seconds later. No ejaculation. He wasn’t even close to ejaculating. I know that women can be impregnated by precum, too, so he made sure to urinate before entering me (I read that urine kills off the sperm in precum).
So yesterday I noticed a pink spot in my underwear. I thought I was starting my period (I’m supposed to start sometime this week). But in the morning I noticed my sanitary napkin was still clean. I experienced some more pink spotting and then one very prominent dark brown spot.
Technically I haven’t missed my period yet. I still might have it in the next couple of days (I’ve never been accurate to the day, but my periods are more or less between thirty days of each other). But I have never, ever experienced spotting like this before. And usually when I bleed a little bit I start bleeding heavily soon after. Or else I start cramping very badly.
So could it be implantation bleeding? Or is it just premenstrual bleeding or the first stages of a really light period? I read that stress can cause spotting, too, and I have been extremely stressed out the last week. Or maybe it’s something else.
Also, when could I take a pregnancy test? My boyfriend just went off to buy two. One to take today and another to take two or three days from now.
Please no jokes. My boyfriend and I are usually paranoid about things going wrong during sex. We didn’t know that what we did could cause any harm. Either way, I’m never doing it again.